What Would You Do?

Pius Adejumobi
3 min readNov 21, 2024

A Call to Action for Humanity

Photo by Wolfgang Hasselmann on Unsplash

Imagine this: you’re enjoying your day at a park or a bustling restaurant when, right before your eyes, something unsettling happens.

A child is on the verge of being kidnapped.

A partner is humiliated and shoved in public.

A friend is berated to the brink of tears.

What do you do? Do you intervene, call for help, or turn away?

The question isn’t just hypothetical.

It’s a moral litmus test.

A challenge to your humanity.

A reflection of who you are.

We live in a world where people often choose to "mind their own business" instead of stepping up when someone clearly needs help.

This behavior is no longer just a social phenomenon—it’s a crisis of compassion.

Why are we so quick to retreat into the shadows instead of standing in the light of action?

The Reasons for Inaction

People have their reasons—or excuses—for not intervening.

Psychologists call this the bystander effect.

Here are some common explanations:

Fear of Consequences

Some worry about getting involved with the authorities or facing backlash from the perpetrator.

Complacency and Detachment

“It’s not my problem,” they tell themselves.

Lack of Confidence

Others feel unsure about what to say or do.

Cultural and Racial Barriers

Sadly, biases like “white-to-white” or “black-on-black” can influence decisions.

Overwhelm

Many are too consumed by their own struggles to see another person’s pain.

But here’s the truth: every moment of inaction chips away at the fabric of our shared humanity.

When we fail to act, we enable abuse, neglect, and cruelty.

The Courage to Act

It takes courage to break the bystander effect.

Those who step up often do so because of personal convictions or past experiences.

Maybe they remember a time when someone helped them—or when no one did.

Their empathy propels them to say: Enough. This ends now.

Renowned psychologist Dr. Martin Seligman said,

“The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the grandest intention.”

Kindness, in this context, is not just about being nice. It’s about choosing action over apathy, intervention over indifference.

A Challenge to You

The next time you witness a moment of injustice, don’t ask, “What will others do?” Instead, ask yourself, “What will I do?”

Will you summon the courage to speak up?

Will you call the police if necessary?

Will you disrupt the cycle of abuse by showing that someone cares?

The life you save might not just be someone else’s—it might be your own.

Compassion has a ripple effect.

By intervening today, you teach others to do the same tomorrow.

A Leader in the Moment

Leaders aren’t just those with titles or power.

Leaders are ordinary people who choose to act in extraordinary moments.

Leadership begins when you decide to be your brother’s keeper.

When you remember the words of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.:

“Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.”

Your Call to Action

Here’s my challenge to you:

When you see something, say something.

Pay attention to your surroundings. Situational awareness is key.

Be the person who stands up when everyone else stays seated.

Let this be your pledge:
Today, I choose action over apathy.

I choose to make the world a safer, better place for everyone.

I choose to be the leader who steps up, even when it’s inconvenient or uncomfortable.

Because in the end, the real question isn’t What would you do?

The question is: What will you do, right now?

Let’s make the world safer—one courageous act at a time.

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Pius Adejumobi
Pius Adejumobi

Written by Pius Adejumobi

Believer, Father, blogger@breakyourice.com. I want to encourage people to maximize their potential. Join https://breakyourice.medium.com/membership

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