Great piece, amazing observation.
I never knew charm could be learned.
But what about charisma?
If it is learned, could it become plastic or artificial mannerisms?
I can distinguish between genuine and fake smiles whenever I see one.
Sadly, it happens often. Why do people do that?
That is why I don’t respond to some flashy momentary smiles.
If you want to know, do a quick test, when someone smiles at you, acknowledge it and look at that person in a moment.
If it is real there will be no change.
If it’s not, then, you will be surprised with what you discover.
Often, the person seemed lost.